Every relationship with another is unique. And that is true of each person’s relationship with God. Our need for God is universal; we all have it. But our response to God is always personal and one-of-a-kind.
I found this out myself during a prayer before a meeting. The leader of the prayer said we would say the Our Father. However, he would say a phrase, and we in random order would give our thoughts on that part of the prayer.
He began, “Our Father”, and hesitantly one of the group said, “You’re more like a mother.” Another said, “You protect me,” and another offered, “Your love for me keeps me feeling safe.”
Those were just a few of the thoughts, and there were about 15 people in the group.
As soon as there was a very long pause, the leader went to the next phrase, “Who Art in Heaven” and so on through the entire prayer. Saying that prayer usually takes 15-20 seconds, but it took us close to 20-25 minutes.
Interesting remarks were heard afterward. One woman offered that she would never say the Our Father the same again. A young man in the group said he had no idea what varied kind of thoughts the same words could draw from people.
During World War II there was a holy woman in Europe, (I forget which country) who was bedfast. People would come to her to get some direction for their spiritual lives. One person said to her, “Since I’ve been coming to see you, I say almost 50 Our Fathers a day!” “Oh, my,” the holy woman replied, “I find it hard to pray the Our Father one time, there is so much in it.”
Taking the time to really think about the words you are saying will give you a nudge into saying words that are yours. Or you may end up praying without words, just with feelings of awe or gratitude or praise.
Remember the definition of prayer is: lifting your mind and heart to God.
It doesn’t mention words at all!
When Jesus told us to pray always, I think he meant we should really think about our prayers.
My prayers are with you.
Peace and Joy, and Everything Good,
Sr. Sharonlu Sheridan, OSF has a background in education, child development, and family ministries. She has worked as a teacher, school administrator, and as Director of Family Life Services for two dioceses. Sr. Sharonlu has long been an advocate for children and puts her heart into helping parents build and sustain healthy family relationships. One of her most memorable ministries has been with the people of Red Lake Indian Reservation in northern Minnesota, where her heart still lies.
Just as Sr. Sharonlu shows how our relationships with God are diverse, so are our relationships with one another!
Join Sr. Olga on Saturday, February 18th (9:30am – 2:30pm) to grow in peace and find hope in diversity. We all face various interpersonal challenges in our daily lives. In this workshop, Oldenburg Franciscan Sister Olga Wittekind (Jungian psychologist and PhD) will give tools and insights – using Myers-Briggs analysis – to help us understand ourselves better, appreciate others more, and strengthen our relationships with God. This is a great workshops for individuals, ministry groups, families, and couples!
$45 includes a delicious lunch by our wonderful caterer, Cathy Kerker! Call Annette at 812-933-6437 or email firstname.lastname@example.org to RSVP today!
Invite a friend, family member, or come on your own. You never know what wonderful new connections can be made!
Remember, God is a healer, a peacemaker, and a life-giver who lovingly embraces us all and wants us to learn to embrace each other in the same way!